The researchers were quick to point out that they have no doubt that positive
thinking helps patients feel better and improves the quality of their lives. It
just doesn't add days to them.
That may be a bitter pill for those who urge the grouchy and grumpy among us
to cheer up. Norman Vincent Peale, who convinced millions that worry, doubt and
defeatism can be overcome, might be overcome himself were he alive to hear the
news.
All in all, this hasn't been a bull market for positive thinkers. Two decades
ago, in the Reagan era, it might have been morning in America, but now, with
terrorism, snipers, threats of war and economic anemia, it's the middle of the
night. We're tossing and turning, anxious and angry thoughts racing through our
heads, while somewhere a faucet goes drip, drip, drip.
Do we really need to look on the bright side?
Barbara S. Held, a psychologist and professor at Bowdoin College, argues that
it's time to end what she calls the "tyranny of the positive attitude in
America."
"It's gotten worse since 9/11," she said. "There's less tolerance for the
expression of negativity. You're labeled unpatriotic, as if you've somehow given
in to the enemy."
Negativity is not such a bad thing for some people, Dr. Held said, from the
rude curmudgeon who wallows in it to the normally upbeat person having the
occasional bad day. "Insisting that they smile and look on the bright side may
backfire and make them feel even worse," she said.
(Want proof that negativity works? Look no further than Jimmy Carter, the man
who preceded Mr. Reagan and whose 1979 "malaise" speech is perhaps the most
public display of negativity in recent memory. He was just awarded the Nobel
Peace Prize.)
"There's much to be gained from appreciating our negative thoughts and
feelings," said Gerald Amada, a psychologist and the former director of the
mental health program at the City College of San Francisco. It is important to
acknowledge that negative thoughts can serve a purpose. "We need to take a
morally neutral position with respect to angry emotions, not always see them as
destructive and all-consuming," said Dr. Amada, the author of "The Power of
Negative Thinking" (Madison Books, 1999).
Even when it seems that negative thoughts should dissipate as with the
apparent resolution last week of the sniper case in the Washington area there
are those who will stay gloomy, angry or anxious.
"Some people might say, What are you angry about he's been caught,' " said
Dr. Held, whose book "Stop Smiling, Start Kvetching" was published last year by
St Martin's Press. "But now there's a whole new dimension to life. There may be
more snipers. Life is more unstable than we ever conceived of."
But perpetually anxious people have their own form of bulletproofing. Their
Kevlar consists of setting expectations low, preparing for the worst possible
outcome and precisely planning how to prevent it from happening.
Julie K. Norem, a psychologist and professor at Wellesley College, calls this
defensive pessimism. "This focuses them on things they can do, and away from the
anxiety," she said. "An awful lot of people do learn how to do it for themselves
in a concrete way."
Anger can help some people manage anxiety, too. "One of the things that makes
anxiety so awful is that you feel out of control," said Dr. Norem, the author of
"The Positive Power of Negative Thinking" (Basic Books, 2001). "Anger is an
energizing emotion. With anger you feel more in control."
Whether venting anger or maintaining a generally glum attitude has actual
health benefits, however, is an open question, Dr. Norem said, although she
pointed to one study that showed a correlation between cheerfulness in men and
earlier mortality.
"You don't want to make too much of it," she said. "But for cranks like me,
it was encouraging."
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