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High-profile fibs feed public cynicism
By Karen S. Peterson, USA TODAY
Perhaps the country is headed into a summer of
deceit.
A fresh batch of high-profile liars have been caught
with their integrity down, some confessing, some just languishing in an
advanced state of embarrassment.
The reasons they fib are often complex, say social
scientists who monitor such things. And yes, it does matter. People do
care. It all adds up — or comes down — to more fodder to feed an
increasingly cynical society.
The most recent fabrications:
- Journalist David
Brock confessed in Blinded by the Right that he "lost
his soul" by printing allegations he knew to be untrue about
Anita Hill during the 1991 Clarence Thomas confirmation hearings for
the U.S. Supreme Court.
- Pulitzer
Prize-winning historian and Mount Holyoke College professor Joseph
Ellis was caught having invented a tour of duty in Vietnam.
- Sony's Columbia
Pictures acknowledged creating a fake critic to praise its movies in
newspaper advertisements. Both Columbia and Fox Searchlight
acknowledged having employees pose as moviegoers in
"man-on-the-street" interviews for TV commercials.
And one does not have to go back far to recall a
president lying about a sex scandal and desperately parsing words to
avoid the truth.
It all adds up. "We have become desensitized to
the enormous significance of lying," says Michael Josephson of the
Josephson Institute of Ethics in Marina del Rey, Calif. "The effects
are all destructive, generally lowering the level of trust in anything we
read or hear." The cumulative effect is to give everyone permission
to lie, Josephson says, because the powerful do.
For only the second time in 50 years, ethics and
morality near the top of the list of what the public regards as the most
important problems facing the country, says pollster George Gallup Jr.
"I think the public is alarmed. More than three-quarters (78%) say
our moral values are somewhat or very weak."
Public lying is sapping the nation's strength, says
Gerald Celente of Trends Research Institute in Rhinebeck, N.Y.
"There is a moral and spiritual vacuum reflected in all aspects of
society. Lying and cheating is permissible."
Lying can be acceptable in some instances, however.
Some theologians believe the full truth can be a form of betrayal if it
causes harm. And some lies can be justified if they serve the higher
good, says John Carlson of the Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life. But
lies told "for personal gain and no higher good, to improve one's
status or sense of self, or for self-aggrandizement" are out of
bounds.
Lies range from "the impulsive, to the
unconscious, to those that are fully planned and carefully
executed," says psychiatrist Jeffery Smith of Scarsdale, N.Y. The
ability to lie is actually one of the hallmarks of being human. "A
lie takes the truth and flips it upside down. Animals cannot do that."
Liars fib from a variety of motives, from simple to
complex, experts say. They may seek to escape punishment, to gain
something that can't be earned legitimately, to get power over others or
to build self esteem, says psychologist Paul Ekman, author of Telling
Lies (Norton, $9.95). Liars often underestimate the consequences, he
says. "They may never be trusted again."
One motive is "pure greed," says Charles
Ford, author of Lies! Lies!! Lies!!! The Psychology of Deceit
(American Psychiatric, $17). "Certainly we know there is no shortage
of lying in order to make more money."
But other scenarios get more interesting, he says.
Some lies "often involve people who are talented, bright,
accomplished. They have no need to lie to sustain their importance, and
yet they do it anyway," says Ford, a psychiatrist at the University
of Alabama Medical School.
Some see this type of liar "as a variant of
what is called the impostor syndrome. Even though they are very
successful, they feel they are frauds. They feel that whatever came to
them was undeserved. And even though they could get caught, even though
they may eventually sabotage themselves, they will do it anyway."
These fibbers "make up stories that embellish
their pasts, often to make them seem more masculine." There may be,
he says, "a 'gotcha' element, a belief they can pull it off. They
feel superior."
Some liars eventually become convinced they are
telling the truth, says Frank Farley, past president of the American
Psychological Association, now with Temple University in Philadelphia.
"Our memories are not static, like a filing
system," Farley says. "Memory is dynamic. It is altered by new
experiences and gets edited to accommodate old ones. You end up believing
something that is really a lie."
But it will get harder to fudge, Farley says. This
is the era of the Internet. "We live in a much more scrutinized
society. We are relentless voyeurs into the lives of people. It is
getting harder to hide these things."
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