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AUTISM FIRST STEPS
AUTISM DAILY NEWSLETTER     
Friday January 11, 2002  


INDEX:
*  Living in a world of autism
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 Snow related activities
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A Teeny Tiny book about Martin Luther King, Jr
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January decoration
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Diorama project in the Ocean Fun section

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Living in a world of autism

By Angie Zelenak,
Heritage Newspapers

"We pray for a miracle every day — every single day," said Rosemary Riley-Mondro, in anticipation of a cure for her 8-year-old son, Jimmy.He has attended the Lincoln Park autistic program at LeBlanc School for the last four years.  The school recently received a $40,000 grant from Grand Valley State University to become a model demonstration and intensive training site.  "He’s doesn’t fall in the textbook parameter of being autistic," his mother said, "but he has symptoms of it along with other neurological issues."It has been a very long road for the Dearborn Heights’ parents, who were a bit older when their only child was born.  "I was 41 years old and Jim, my husband, was 49," Riley-Mondro said. "We were so happy."Taking all the precautions to ensure a healthy baby, Riley-Mondro said they opted to go to a high-risk obstetrician, just to be safe. "We had some fears for our baby due to my age," she said.    The pregnancy went along without a hitch and on Sept. 7, 1993, James Mondro was born, weighing in at 6 pounds, 11 ounces."We were so grateful that everything went well.  He looked healthy and responded accordingly to the APGAR score," she said, referring to the results of a nationally known test used to quickly evaluate a newborn’s condition after delivery.   Other than a low weight problem in the first few weeks, things seem to be going fine with her son, Riley-Mondro said.  "He was a good baby," she said.  "He responded to me and loved to be held."However, as the weeks turned into months, Riley-Mondro noticed that the baby would become loud and easily excited for no apparent reason.At about 10 months old, she mentioned it to his pediatrician, along with concerns that Jimmy didn’t seem to be responding to interactive play or making attempts to talk. "He was very outgoing and loving, but just wouldn’t focus or talk," she said.She said she remembers the doctor saying: "He’s fine. All kids are different.  He just happens to be taking his time." Then, close to his first birthday, Jimmy developed a seizure disorder that requires medication to control. "He just stared and drooled," Riley-Mondro said.  "It was painful to see him go through them.  But these things happen and children can live productive lives. I was accepting of that."  But what concerned the first- time mother equally was that Jimmy was still not talking or showing any signs of skills in other areas.When he was 15 months old, she again brought her concerns to the pediatrician.  "He’s just a laid-back kid is what he told me," she said.Coincidentally, at about the same time, she had an appointment to see a neurologist for an evaluation of Jimmy’s seizure disorder. At that visit with the specialist, the still-troubled mother inquired with her concerns.  Presuming all else was fine, the doctor used a vibrating tuning fork that is used to test hearing.  "Jimmy wouldn’t respond in the direction of the sound," Riley-Mondro said. "It was recommended that I take him to a hearing specialist, an otolaryngologist."    The results obtained from the ear, nose and throat specialist had a bittersweet conclusion: Jimmy had a moderately severe hearing loss. "We were sad that he couldn’t hear but were happy to be getting him the help he needed … getting him on track," his mother said.Nevertheless, neither that information nor an attempt to correct Jimmy’s hearing proved conclusive in the quest to help their son.  At 18 months, Jimmy was fitted for hearing aids and began working with an oral peripheral specialist who visited the home twice a week for months.  There was no change or improvement in his progress. "She told us if he was only deaf or hearing impaired, with the corrected hearing he now had, he should be doing more," Riley-Mondro said.  "She suggested that there could be neurological issues."     According to medical experts, identifying problems associated with the functioning of the brain can be difficult.  And it is more so if autism is involved because it is a neurological disorder with no easily identifiable cause to pinpoint.  "There are no medical tests for diagnosing autism," said Barbara Brish, director of the Lincoln Park school system’s autism program, which Jimmy attends.  "Observation is the best diagnosis, but some misunderstanding can happen in diagnosing when using a textbook definition to identify autism.  It should not be the rule of thumb."With hearing aids in place but no communication or language skills, Jimmy and his parents visited many doctors and specialists throughout the United States for the next few years, to no avail.  No one could give them a clear answer to their question: What is going on with our son?"We didn’t know where to begin or how to help him," Riley-Mondro said. "Jimmy is very friendly. He makes eye contact and likes to be touched, which is the opposite of how many people and professionals believe autism to be."Doctors kept telling us that he was too outgoing to be autistic, and yet, he doesn’t have language, which is a textbook definition of autism."  Finally, in 1997, when Jimmy was 4 years old, the family went to the Mayo Clinic after reading about Dr. Stanley Greenspan, a nationally recognized child psychiatrist, researcher and author in Baltimore, Md.  He helped develop a program called the "PLAY Project" for children with disorders in relating and communicating.  "We didn’t get to see Greenspan but did see a specialist with his group," Riley-Mondro said.  "She was the first person who said, ‘Your son falls within the autistic spectrum.’" It was very difficult for the Mondros to hear the news. "At first, we didn’t know how to respond," she said.  "We didn’t know anything about autism or how to work with our son. "Especially after reading all the literature about autism, you are completely devastated because you are told there is no known clear-cut cure for autism."This, however, did not stop the parents from researching the possibilities of one.  "You often hear of management control recovery," Riley-Mondro said, referring to adjustments in diet, hormone injections or homeopathic intervention, which in some cases has eliminated symptoms. "We found some to show signs of promise, although minimal, and then others that didn’t."The time to reach a diagnosis, develop a course of action and provide long-term guidance can be difficult, said teacher Mary Ann Goniea, who works with the program at Crowley Center in Lincoln Park. She said it is a long journey for the parents. "Each parent dealing with a child who has autism will tell you a different version of their story," Goniea said.  "Very rarely is there a straightforward definition for diagnosing a child with autism."Areas that may be affected by autism are communication, social or play interaction and behavioral and sensory impairment, according to Brish. "Every child and adult with autism is an individual and can have a range of areas affected and show delay in," she said. "Then there are those that are high functioning autistic, which are only limited in a small area and need only minimum intervention."Brish said some of the behaviors associated with autism are similar to other disorders, so numerous medical tests may be ordered to rule out or identify other possible causes of the symptoms.The most common characteristic of autism is evident when taking a child out of his sequence of events, which causes a complete breakdown or tantrum.  For others, it is addressing withdrawal and isolation from people "into their own world."   With Jimmy, it is none of the above. "Jimmy can be easily re-directed and loves to be hugged," his mother said. "He can say ‘hi’ and ‘om’ for mom, but his receptive or understanding of language is not anywhere near where he should be for his age."He cannot learn sign language because he hasn’t mastered the fine motor skills which are often helpful with other children to help them communicate."Riley-Mondro also said Jimmy is developmentally delayed. She wonders if he had been diagnosed earlier whether he would be more advanced now or if he has reached his peak of development."I’m not blaming anyone," she said. "I just wish there was more information out there about autism to lead professionals to take note and go beyond the black-and-white definition.  Early intervention is the key to a better long-term outcome."  As if to compound earlier decisions made on Jimmy’s behalf, Riley-Mondro said she and her husband were told that Jimmy’s hearing loss might not be as severe as initially thought.  "An accurate hearing test, I now understand, can be difficult to get from a child with autism," she said.  "But all that time working on his hearing when it may not even be a factor in the big picture — that’s the hard part."Jimmy resembles any other healthy, outgoing child. He has no obvious physical appearances associated with autism and that leads to challenges in taking him out in public, his mother said."Many people presume we’re poor parents or disciplinarians and question our skills," she said.  "Once, my husband and I were asked to leave a religious service because Jimmy was randomly going here and there. "I don’t hold any grudges because people don’t understand.  Thank God for people like Barbara Brish and the staff in the Lincoln Park program.  With their guidance I’m accepting the challenges and they are teaching me how to best deal with my son for a brighter outcome."Goniea asks for acceptance on the part of others to acknowledge differences among people"We often ask people to accept others for cultural differences," she said.  "We also need to remember to accept people for all their differences."People are more alike than they have differences.  Give children and people the opportunity to show what they can do."Jimmy recently was accepted in the PLAY Project at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor. The project is geared toward early intervention, training and advocacy for children with autism.    

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If you are looking for snow related activities, there are many here at this wonderful website by Backmanor:



Greetings
Make A Sleeping Mouse
Mother Goose Hypercard Stack
A Jack-In-The-Box Craft
Microwave Popcorn Balls
Santa Concentration
A Unique Alphabet
Winter Counting
Sweet Treats Clipart
Christmas Poetry From JudithDinosaur Icons
Christmas Activity Pages
A Snow Village
A Mitten Project
Mexican Wedding Cakes
A Snow People Project
Decorate A Tree For The BirdsHandwriting Worksheet Offer
A Winter Counting Book
Jolly-O Bingo Game
Snow Crystals Stack
Hanukah Alphabet Blocks
A Winter Scene
Cardinal Clipart
Make A Dollhouse
A Kwanzaa Counting Book
Clipart Animal Icons 2
The Winter's Tale
Winter Dominoes
Hello Winter Book
Happy New Year Banner

http://www.bry-backmanor.org/december/index.html
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A Teeny Tiny book about Martin Luther King, Jr

 



http://www.bry-backmanor.org/mlk.html
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January decoration


Try a snowflake wreath. Cut out a
cardboard wreath form. Print out some snowflakes and cover the wreath with them. Accent it with some snowmen.  I have put together some snowflakes and snowmen in both color and black and white for you here:
http://www.bry-backmanor.org/januarywreath.html
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Diorama project in the Ocean Fun section


(http://www.bry-backmanor.org/oceanfun/ocean.html)

some extra ideas used that are very successfully.

Instead of construction paper we used old OHP transparencies and old x-ray charts (to clean them put them in the bath and soak them in bleach - we call it jik until they are clear.) Use either poster paints or glass stain or fabric paints to colour them.The kids outlined the shapes from pictures or free drew with a black koki pen onto the transparencies.

When you have finished the oceanarium cut a hole in the back of the box and hang strips of  blue cellophone paper to resemble the sea. Rig up a small lamp or light of some kind so that it shines through the hole. Its like magic to the kids.

I also used proper shells and pebbles we had collected from our beach outing and mixed sand with a hard drying glue which I put on the bottom "of the sea". The project just grew and grew as I went along. The
kids also made 3D seaweed etc with construction paper, and used a lot of
glitter and flourescent paints".

In keeping with the Ocean theme, here is a rerun of some ideas from a long ago Newsletter. If everyone is tired of snow and ice, celebrate a Beach Day!

Forget the cold weather outside and get out the beach towels and sunglasses.

Have tropical fruit snacks like pineapple, papayas, and bananas and drink
fruit punch.

Listen to Island or Reggae music.

Play Simon Says with swimming strokes. Go on an imaginary surfboard
adventure. Do the Limbo.

Make some Playdough and build sand castles. Or, perhaps, use the clay to
build a beach diorama.

Uncooked Playdough

     
  * 1 cup cold water
  * 1 cup salt
  * 2 tsp. vegetable oil
  * 3 cups flour
  * 2 tbsps. cornstarch
  * Tempera paint or food coloring

Mix water, salt, oil and enough paint to make bright colors (for sand use
light brown). Gradually work flour and cornstarch to consistency of bread
dough.


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