Polio in the Depression era meant -- if not a death sentence --
at least a life confined to crutches, braces, a wheelchair or worse,
an iron lung.
Sarah Foster McLean, who was stricken with that disease as a
preteen and told she'd never walk again, died July 4 at Mercy
Hospital at age 83. She had been put in a solid body cast for two
years but, through sheer determination and fortitude, was able to
shed the cast and live a fairly normal life -- without
orthopedic appliances.
She was declared "cured" at age 16 and was living in Belmont when
she met Brevard McLean, whom she married the next year. Oldest son
Marvin was born a year later and Stewart, David and Ron followed.
Stewart, a Marine, died in an auto accident in 1965 driving home
from Cherry Point.
Sarah and Brevard worked separate shifts in a Belmont hosiery
mill. She loved children and later cared for them for several years
in her home. She also worked at Kings Mountain Hospital, another
hosiery mill and finally at a second day care before her retirement.
Sarah adored children, said David's wife Cindy, and loved taking
care of them. "When she was practically blind, she'd spot a kid and
a big smile would come on her face. She was very family oriented and
was close to her own family as well as to the McLean side."
Moved to Charlotte
Brevard died in 1995 and Sarah moved to Charlotte to be near
David and his family.Sarah had to drop out of school in the 6th
grade, but "She was a terrific mother," said Cindy. "She produced
fine young men who turned out to be highly successful."
David recalled Cindy's first dinner with the family. "There was
two of everything," he said. "Cindy didn't believe anybody cooked
this way. Sunday dinners were like that at our house and Christmas
was three times that." One of his favorites was "Jesus' birthday
cake" -- a six-layer, three-flavor, white-frosted confection with
jelly bean decorations.
As her health began failing, Sarah needed a wheelchair. She tried
apartment living for awhile but it wasn't suitable. She was too
confined and missed neighborly interaction.
"She needed to be with people," David said. Finally, he learned
of Dorchester Village near Pineville and Sarah had found a new home.
Its doors opened inward to the hallway, rather than outward to a
street.
"You're gonna love it here"
She greeted newcomers at the entrance with, "You're gonna love it
here," and extolled the excellence of her home. She wore out a
battery in her motorized wheelchair helping set tables and
frequently gave the cook a hand in the kitchen. "The kitchen keeps
100 on its sanitary rating," David said.
"Sarah always felt best when she was able to make herself useful
in service to others," said Cindy. This selfless attitude and her
straightforward approach to others endeared her to many of the
residents and staff alike.
Sarah delivered welcome kits to new residents and took five or
six meals an evening to room-bound residents.
"We're glad she could do this," David said. "It gave her a reason
for being. She realized that and kept at it."
Her volunteer efforts were recognized not only by the Dorchester
but also by Gov. Mike Easley in 2001. The beribboned and nicely
framed awards hung in places of honor on her walls, David said.
We can't know if she now has walls for hanging her awards; but
we'll bet she has a crown plumb full of stars.
Gerry
Hostetler